The Complete Idiot’s Guide To Finding A Chastity Keyholder ─ Part 2 - Cut to the Chaste
A keyholder can be anyone — as long as that person consents to the role. Many male chastity guides and sites assume a keyholder will automatically be female. This is also not true — anyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation, can play this role. Being a keyholder is a responsibility. The caged individual is literally putting their pleasure and safety into your hands. But keyholding can also be a lot of fun.
When a woman controls the orgasms of a man, SHE will control the man himself. I recommend BON4 for the reliability, comfort and discrete wearing. This is the best option for beginners. An erection or an orgasm is allowed only if I want, under My direction and supervision.
This should be in the chastity stories. Carol and I had been dating for a little more than 18 months when I finally got up the nerve to ask her to marry me. She agreed, holding me tight, and kissed me, at first gently, then more passionately, teasing me with her lips and tongue. She is a great kisser, I can assure you. But Carol came from a very conservative, church-going family, and our sex life had consisted of a lot of passionate necking and my wandering hands, but she had convinced me that we should wait until our wedding to learn the joy of sex together.